Dave Allen

I am a life coach and a body coach.  I believe my life work is to assist men to find success, fulfillment and the ability to live connected, rich, powerful and pleasurable lives, with a special emphasis on their erotic lives.

My entry into the world of leather, Kink and BDSM was initially a whim and grew very quickly into an important element of who I am. For the last 15 years, I have been supporting men in their initial explorations of this world by facilitating Body Electric’s Power, Surrender and Intimacy as well as through other experiences. I have presented at various other events including Inferno and the SF Sexworkers Film Festival. I have been affiliated with the Dallas leather club Discipline Corps. I especially am fond of impact play, spanking and flogging; sensation play and role play. I addition to these forms of play being very pleasurable and fun, I also believe that they offer access to potent forms of transformation and an opportunity for deep spiritual exploration. Nothing is better than witnessing a man’s first flogging or spanking and seeing his delight and surprise.

My study of Tantra has taught me that everything is an experiment and that transformation happens in a strong container that is consciously created and held during the transformation. As a coach, and workshop facilitator, I honor my beliefs and my values of curiosity, practice, connection, eroticism and synergy in my work.  My inspiration comes from many traditions including power dynamics, mysticism, Tantra, various spiritual paths including Christianity and Native American spirituality. I invite you to dive into this mystery of life and find that great pleasures to be found in exploration, especially erotic exploration. You can learn more about what I do at: www.coach4men.com. Message me at: dave@coach4men.com